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  1. necklace from etsy:  etsy is the world’s handmade marketplace!  it’s also trouble!  haha, only joking, but seriously, it’s a wonderful site to purchase things people just like you actually make and sell for a profit.  a lot of their jewelry is very cute and what bestie wouldn’t love something so thoughtful?
  2. “red” by taylor swift:  or any other rocking, fun, sweet, catchy CD that came out this year.  this CD just happens to be one of my recent faves.  you could even plan to go to a concert in the new year, by whatever artist you picked, therefore even further extending the value of your gift!  
  3. gift certificate to a hair salon:  or your local BLOW DRY BAR.  check out ROCKS BLOW DRY BAR, coming soon to Newport News, VA in the new year! what BFF wouldn’t adore having her tresses washed, scalp massaged, and hair turned into a silky, wavy, bouncy masterpiece?!?! 
  4. “someone knows my name” by lawrence hill: or any other memorable book you read (or at least read a brilliant review about) in the last year.  this was a killer book, in my opinion, one of the best i have ever read, hands down.  if your best friend is cool and loves to read, she will cherish this pick from you.
  5. i-Phone hard case:  or a similarly presh case for whatever type of phone your bestie actually has (you should know!).  most people use their phone on a daily basis, and now every time she looks at it, she’ll think of you!  what a gift!!!!  hah.
  6. essie nail polish:  or a gift certificate for a mani-pedi!  need i say more?
  7. animal print scarf:  pick something soft, pretty, and in your BFF’s style.  simple yet useful.  i just love animal prints!!!!
  8. kiva.org:  dedicate or make a donation in your best friend’s name.  i absolutely love this site and stand by it 100%.  check it out today, it’s amazing.  you can change your friend’s life and the lives of so many other people around the world…what are you waiting for?

i hope you enjoyed today’s picks:  THINGS I LOVE, THE BFF (best friend forever) GIFT GIVING EDITION!  i am assuming that most of my 5 readers are females, and therefore will probably have a female BFF, hence the gift ideas.  my apologies if your BFF is male.  he may actually enjoy several of my suggestions.  :-)  

i’ll wrap up this weekend with one final post, with gift ideas for who else, but the amazing, gorgeous, intelligent, witty wife/girlfriend/baby momma in your life!!!!!

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  1. old navy parka:  i spied this adorable coat in old navy the other day.  it was 60% off the original price.  i walked away from it, but that may have been a HUGE mistake.  any little baby girl would look spectacular in this classic number; you can’t beat trendy, warm, and ON SALE!  i’m pretty sure they make an equally adorable baby boy parka, as well.
  2. target chevron baby blanket:  these are at your local target store RIGHT NOW. don’t pass it by.  either color combo would be perfect for the little baby boy or girl in your life.  so cute i could cry!
  3. bebe bottle sling:  i didn’t know of this product when my littles were babies, but i will definitely be buying it in the future for friends who bottle-feed their little ones.  i spent many a time, frustrated to no end - either staying home and being late because i had to give a bottle before leaving, or unsuccessfully trying to find a way to prop up a bottle while on the go.  this is the perfect solution, yahoo!!!!
  4. melissa & doug slice and bake cookie set:  check for sale prices on amazon or even local stores (it was 50% off at michael’s craft store a few weeks back).  this brand is really well made and can stand the test of time.  plus a lot of their toys are made from wood, so it won’t break like plastic and it just looks nicer, simple as that.
  5. aden & anais muslin swaddle blankets:  they come in boy and girl prints/colors and are so amazing.  they’re large enough to get a good swaddle, they’re soft (and only get softer with each wash), and they’re lightweight enough to use in the summer as a blanket or to cover an infant carrier.  the possibilities are nearly endless!
  6. comfort bb soft-sole shoes:  these come in many different color/animal combinations, great for baby boys and baby girls.  personally, i like the pink ones with the yellow ducks…! :-)
  7. usborne’s touchy feely books:  the “that’s not my…” series is so cute!  they’re interactive with bright illustrations and a silly little story.  the perfect book for your wee reader. 
  8. a heartfelt cuddle and kiss:  the easiest, sweetest (cheapest), and BEST gift of all for any little in your life!!!!!!!

today’s edition of “THINGS I LOVE:  gift ideas” was clearly geared toward the sweet babies/toddlers in your life.  i hope you enjoyed my selections!  tune in later in the week for some gift ideas for the BFF in your life…!

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just like oprah, but even better, y’all!!!!!!!!

these gifts are based on my tastes, opinions, etc.  feel free to agree or disagree, but just know, i am always usually always right.  haha :-)

today’s blog will cover some ideas for the guy (husband/boyfriend/friend) in your life:

  1. XBox Live Gold membership:  if your husband likes to play video games, chances are you can’t go wrong with this gift card (or the XBox Live Points card).  you could also apply this idea to the Wii or Playstation.
  2. money:  dollar, dollar bills y’all!  the universally accepted gift.  this option ensures that he can get whatever his heart desires.  in my case, it would probably be for a new tattoo!
  3. i-Tunes gift card:  again, this is a smart choice because it’s good for music, tv shows, games, apps, etc. at the i-Tunes store. 
  4. concert tickets:  sticking with the music theme, if your guy’s favorite band is in town (or going to be in the near future), a pair of tickets to their upcoming show would be a pretty sweet, thoughtful (and fun!) gift idea, if i do say so myself.  which i just did, so….
  5. movie theater gift card:  our local theater is the huge AMC-24 movie complex.  a gift card here is smart because there are a lot of good GUY movies already out or are coming out that you’re sure to enjoy, as well.  ”argo,” “lincoln,” “the hobbit,” etc.  so really, win-win gifts are the best!
  6. local brewery tour:  plan a trip to a local brewery, or two or three!  your guy probably enjoys beer and brewery tours are always so much fun, plus you get free tastings!  i really want to take a day trip to the mountains with the mr. and go to the legend brewery, it’s the oldest microbrewery in Central VA!

so those are just a few ideas of mine, i hope something inspired your own gift ideas for this christmas!

tune in later in the week to see some of my gift ideas for the special lady, little baby, and besties in your life!

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  1. essie’s ‘penny talk’ nail polish:  it’s a part of their metallics collection, and it’s my favorite color.  i love the copper shade for any time of the year, but it can be extra fancy and festive in the winter.
  2. loreal’s true match blush:  i have searched high and low for the perfect blush.  i’m not positive i’ve found it, but this one is my favorite to date.  it blends naturally and they have a lot of shades to choose from, depending on if you’re skin tone is cool, warm or neutral.
  3. maybelline’s baby lips balm:  get it in grape vine.  just go get it, right now!  it smells good, it looks divine, it’s cheap, it’s cute, yada yada yada.
  4. maybelline’s falsies black drama mascara:  this is just a great, all-around mascara.  it goes on dark and thick, but not clumpy.  who wants clumpy lashes?  i don’t.  i like the waterproof version even more, because then there’s no worries if you’re apt to spend a lot of time out in the rain and/or you cry a lot.
  5. wet and wild’s idol eyes pencil:  so cheap, and so cute.  the techno (neon purple) option is the best.  you may be thinking, “neon purple?  really?  even at 30?”  my answer is, “YES!”  would i lie to you?!?!? 
  6. johnson and johnson’s baby creamy oil:  with cocoa and shea butter.  it’s not just for babies!  it smells scrumptious.  it’s not greasy.  what more could you ask for in a body cream???  nothing.  it’s all right here!
OKAY!  okay, so i win the super fail at blogging award, for sure.  so sue me.
 
to make up for the fact that i didn’t finish out november’s blogs, i am just going to extend blogging about the THINGS I LOVE into december!!!!  this way, i can still chit chat about the things i love (of which there are many), you get my wealth of knowledge and/or opinions, and i can still sneak in a blog dedicated to some great gift ideas, since there are still a few weeks left until christmas!  yay me.
 
but today’s blog, i decided to focus on the things i love, in the MAKEUP/BEAUTY world.  i use the blush, mascara, lip balm and eye pencil every. single. day.  it’s why i’m so beautiful.  ahem.  i mean, i just wake up looking that good, all natural…hahah!  the creamy oil lotion is something new that i’ve discovered.  and it’s wonderful, darling!   
 
i hope you try all or at least one of the items listed above and fall in love with them, too!  
 
if you’re a dude, get the idol eye pencil (in techno or electro) for your lady friend as a stocking stuffer.  she will love it.  i get more compliments on that than any other makeup i’ve ever worn!  TRUTH.
 
well, so, i know i’ve said it before, but i will really try my hardest to squeak in a few more blogs about the THINGS I LOVE, because they really are just that cool.
 
i vow to have my christmas gift ideas installment later this week…!
 
until then, ciao bella!

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  1. operation christmas child:  i have loved doing this shoe box gift over the last few years.  it’s so much fun to purchase random items knowing the recipient will find so much joy in things normally taken for granted here in the USA.  i really want to take my littles this year and have them help pick out items for the shoe box so it will mean even more packing it this year…!
  2. frizz ease 3-day straight:  this spray from john frieda is ah-mazing!  i LOVE LOVE LOVE it.  it’s pretty cheap (about $8-$9 at target) and it works wonders.  let’s just say, if it can make MY hair straight, my already thick as horse hair plus a year old perm that won’t go away…then it must be magic.  this stuff is magic, trust me!
  3. wicked:  the broadway musical - i saw it in NYC with some of my best buds and i saw it with the mr. when it came to norfolk a couple years back.  i loved it both times.  the first time, even after hours of sitting in a dark theatre, i immediately wanted to see it again.  like right after the show ended!  i also have the soundtrack, which i equally love.  i like to pretend i sound just like idina or kristen.  yup!
  4. a british accent:  i swear, british accents are just the best.  i probably first fell in love with this awesome accent when my family lived in england back in the early nineties.  ya know, take that and all.  who doesn’t love a british accent?  you automatically sound smarter and wittier the instant you speak with a british accent.  
  5. toms:  these are the ballet flats i have.  they rule.  super cute, super comfy, and super good for the world.  with each purchase, the company donates a free pair of shoes to someone in need.  don’t get mo dope than that!
  6. mother-son quote:  i love mushy mother son quotes.  today was grayson’s 4th birthday party.  where does the time go?  he drives me batty, but i love him more than anything.  

oops, i did it again.  i didn’t post all week.  i like this method better.  hope you enjoy this week’s round-up of THINGS I LOVE.  til next week…!  have a happy turkey day with family and friends!  

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i lied.

i said i would do a post last week.  it just didn’t happen, sigh.  i’m sure you are all super bummed.

here’s how i will make it up to you, though:  a whole week’s worth of posts about things i love, in this one post, today!  your lucky day!!!!

  1. the four gift rule.  we are implementing this idea for birthday and christmas with our littles, starting this year!  i’m super excited at the possibility of thoughtful, useful gifts, without going overboard.
  2. poppies.  i am drooling over the idea of a super pretty, vibrant upper arm tattoo, consisting of poppies just like these.  when i win the lottery, this will be the first tattoo i get!
  3. embrace messy hair.  this is a no-brainer.  i do it literally, ALL THE TIME, and get compliments left and right (hah!)…throw out your hair brush!  just trust me on this one, m’kay?
  4. the walking dead on amc.  this is also a no-brainer.  get it?  hah hah.  because the show is about zombies.  yeah, well, i promise that if you can get past the gore and violence, it really is an excellent show.  i only listened to the first season (i was too afraid to watch it, so i sat nearby while tim and another friend had it on and just used my ears, not my eyes).  for season two, i got brave and haven’t stopped watching since!  RICK!  LORI!  CARL! 
  5. rachel mcadams.  i love her.  she is my favorite actress.  if i could magically wake up one morning and look like any other human being on the face of the earth, it would be her.  she is gorgeous.  LOVE HER!!!!  mean girls!  the notebook!  sherlock holmes!  etc.
  6. chin up, butter cup.  i like this saying.  i say it often.  to whom?  whomever needs it.  i’ll say it to you if you need me to!

ahhh, things i love.  more to come next week.  i promise!  for reals this time!!!!

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help me choose which card layout for this year’s ilardi christmas greetings!

VOTE NOW!

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it lights the whole sky

and just like that, here we are in november!  i hope you enjoyed my “mmm, food” board last month - i have a ton more recipe ideas on that board that i didn’t get to cover, so check it out here anytime you want!

back to the november board i want to tackle with my spin on pins:  THINGS I LOVE!  i like that this board (and its pins) will cover a wide range of things, people, ideas, etc.

i’ll even dedicate the last week in november to a couple of THINGS I LOVE posts related directly to super smart and awesome and cute gift ideas, you know since christmas is only around the corner at this point!!!!  

pretty suave idea, i know.

where to start?  in case you were unaware, i graduated college (magna cum laude, mind you) with an extremely useful degree.  who doesn’t think, “english major, creative writing concentration to be exact: oh, she’s going to be loaded and have an easy time finding a job,” right?  but i do love poetry, and miss writing poems and short stories.  reading beautiful poems is inspiring, however, and here is one of my all-time favorites:


kind of makes you want to stand up at a local coffee shop’s poetry night and read something of your own, right?

tune in next week for more THINGS I LOVE.  send me some of the THINGS YOU LOVE, too.  i LOVE finding new things to LOVE.

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{coconut chicken with apricot sauce}
sweet ‘n savory.  that’s my kind of meal.  the mr. says he doesn’t like sweet ‘n savory, but in reality, he’s wrong.  of course he likes sweet ‘n savory, who doesn’t???  you may not like the phrase, or you may lie to yourself and say you don’t enjoy the sugar & salt combo, but in the end, everyone always loves sweet ‘n savory.  it’s just a fact of life, ok?  hahah.
this is one of my favorite sweet ‘n savory meals that i’ve pinned from Pinterest onto my “mmm, food” board.
here is what you need:
4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
1 egg
1/2 cup flour
1/2 tsp garlic powder
1/2 tsp salt
1/4 tsp ground black pepper
1 cup sweetened coconut flakes
1/2 unsalted butter, melted
preheat your oven to 400 degrees.  melt the butter, set aside. beat the egg, set aside.  combine the flour, garlic powder, salt, black pepper and coconut in a shallow bowl/dish.  dip each chicken breast into the egg first, then coat with the coconut mixture, covering all the nooks and crannies.
place the coated chicken breasts onto a parchment-lined baking sheet (with edges).  drizzle the melted butter evenly over all the chicken.  bake for 35-40 minutes, flipping once during cook time.  use your meat thermometer if you’re a wimp when it comes to salmonella.
while the chicken is cooking, you can prepare the sweet apricot dipping sauce.
1/4 cup apricot preserves
2 tbsp dijon mustard
simply combine those two ingredients, stir and leave in the fridge to chill out together.
serve the chicken with a side of apricot dipping sauce, steamed white or brown rice, and don’t forget your veggies!  i love the birds eye steamfresh brand of frozen vegetables, especially the broccoli/cauliflower one.  YUMM-O!!!!!!!
enjoy this super easy, super yummy, super sweet ‘n savory meal with your loved ones.  maybe before frankenstorm hits???

{coconut chicken with apricot sauce}

sweet ‘n savory.  that’s my kind of meal.  the mr. says he doesn’t like sweet ‘n savory, but in reality, he’s wrong.  of course he likes sweet ‘n savory, who doesn’t???  you may not like the phrase, or you may lie to yourself and say you don’t enjoy the sugar & salt combo, but in the end, everyone always loves sweet ‘n savory.  it’s just a fact of life, ok?  hahah.

this is one of my favorite sweet ‘n savory meals that i’ve pinned from Pinterest onto my “mmm, food” board.

here is what you need:

  • 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
  • 1 egg
  • 1/2 cup flour
  • 1/2 tsp garlic powder
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • 1/4 tsp ground black pepper
  • 1 cup sweetened coconut flakes
  • 1/2 unsalted butter, melted

preheat your oven to 400 degrees.  melt the butter, set aside. beat the egg, set aside.  combine the flour, garlic powder, salt, black pepper and coconut in a shallow bowl/dish.  dip each chicken breast into the egg first, then coat with the coconut mixture, covering all the nooks and crannies.

place the coated chicken breasts onto a parchment-lined baking sheet (with edges).  drizzle the melted butter evenly over all the chicken.  bake for 35-40 minutes, flipping once during cook time.  use your meat thermometer if you’re a wimp when it comes to salmonella.

while the chicken is cooking, you can prepare the sweet apricot dipping sauce.

  • 1/4 cup apricot preserves
  • 2 tbsp dijon mustard

simply combine those two ingredients, stir and leave in the fridge to chill out together.

serve the chicken with a side of apricot dipping sauce, steamed white or brown rice, and don’t forget your veggies!  i love the birds eye steamfresh brand of frozen vegetables, especially the broccoli/cauliflower one.  YUMM-O!!!!!!!

enjoy this super easy, super yummy, super sweet ‘n savory meal with your loved ones.  maybe before frankenstorm hits???

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copy cat, copy cat


i can’t believe october is almost over already!  where is this year going?!!?!?!  do you feel like the fall is slipping away too soon?  i cherish this time of year so much. sigh.

back to the point of this blog - trying out and putting my spin on pins (ie, ideas, recipes, etc.) from my Pinterest boards.  this month, let me remind you, has been PINS from my “MMM,FOOD” board, which you can check out in all its glory here.

i love a good copy-cat recipe.  copy-cat meaning some clever fella (or missy) takes a famous, usually restaurant, item and tries to make an at-home version of it.  i’m featuring TWO copy-cat recipes i found on Pinterest that i think are very close to the real deal.

first up is Carrabba’s spice mixture for their complimentary dipping sauce which they bring out early on in the at-restaurant dining experience.  you know, the one they pour olive oil over and in which you swirl slices of fresh, hot bread, and then stuff your face (and your belly) because you keep asking for more loaves of bread?  i hope that’s not just me…!

  • 1 tbsp EACH of dried basil, dried parsley and minced garlic
  • 1 tsp EACH of dried thyme, dried oregano and ground black pepper
  • 1/2 tsp EACH of ground sea salt and dried rosemary
  • 1/4 tsp dried, crushed red pepper flakes
  • 1/2 tsp olive oil
  • 1/8 tsp fresh lemon juice

combine all ingredients (EXCEPT the olive oil and lemon juice) and put in a spice grinder or small food chopper for a few minutes.

pour into a bowl and add the olive oil and lemon juice, stir.

when ready to serve, use 1.5 tsp of the spice mixture to 3-4-5 tbsp of olive oil in a small dish.  dip sliced bread (italian, french, whatever!) and ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!


the second copy-cat recipe i really love is for Chili’s queso dip.  pretty much every time (which isn’t that often, but still) the mr. and i go to Chili’s, i make him order this for us.  the bottomless chips, c’mon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 1 can of Hormel No-Beans chili
  • 16 oz. box of Velveeta cheese, cubed
  • 1 cup milk (i use whole)
  • 2 tsp paprika
  • 1/2 tsp ground cayenne pepper
  • 4 tsp chili powder
  • 1/2 tsp ground cumin
  • 1-2 tbsp fresh lime juice

you could probably prepare this in a crockpot, as well, but i just did it on the stovetop in a medium sized pot over medium heat (you can adjust heat to speed up melt time, just watch it doesn’t scorch your pot).

pour the canned chili and all spices into the pot.

add the cubed cheese and lime juice.  start with 1 tbsp of the lime juice, you can always add more (like i did) later as you sneak in some taste tests…!

add the milk last.  try using only 3/4 cup of milk at first, and if it seems too thick, add the rest in.  it’s all up to you, really, so experiment!  it will get thicker again as it cools, so just keep that in mind.  

be patient, as it takes a hot minute to get all that awesome Velveeta (hah) to melt.  let it get completely smooth and melty and hot and scrumptious.

then serve with your favorite brand of tortilla chips and try not to eat the whole pot in one sitting.

there you have it.  i hope you try one this week or next month or in 10 years and thank me in the back of your mind for sharing my “brilliance.”

what’s your favorite copy-cat recipe?????